Kundali Milan or matchmaking is considered to be the first and foremost step in finalizing the marriage prospect between the groom and bride. Since ages, Kundli Milan or Rashi (horoscope) matching has always been an important ritual to start off with the process of marriage. Kundali matching holds to have an important significance in the Vedic Astrology. Thus, to highlight its importance, here are,
7 Reasons Why Kundali Milan is Necessary
1. For Overall Compatibility
One major reason why kundali is matched before marriage is to understand how compatible the bride and groom are. As per astrology, there are 36 gunas in total which are matched to conclude how compatible the two people are and how prosperous their life will be. These gunas have different points and each point indicates a different factor of life. It also indicates how their individual star and destiny will affect each other. By matching kundlis, we can also specify conjugal harmony. If in case, there are problems, Jyotish shastra also provides various remedies.
2. Effects on Financial Stability and Career
When two people unite in the sacred relationship of marriage, the movement of their planets has an affect not only on their lives, but on each other’s lives too. Bhakoot, the seventh guna indicates this effect. By matching kundlis, financial stability and job prospects are also looked into.
3. Compatibility to Bear Offspring
One major concern that is looked into through kundli matching is the happiness and health of children. Naadi, the eighth guna carries the maximum points and indicated the chances of childbirth or the problems arising around it, if any. Since a family is considered complete only after the birth of a child, parents are very particular to secure this happiness for their children after marriage.
4. Gauge Mental and Physical Compatibility
The Kundali Milan task is used to predict both the partners’ mindset, interests, behavior, temper, and most importantly their aptitude. This is the basic premise of a successful marriage especially during these challenging times when the world is moving ahead at a massive pace. The matching also evaluates the health and well-being of both the partners. Lastly, the physical attraction is also tested to ensure that there is an adequate level of desirability between both the boy and the girl.
5. Overcome Dasha
When a child takes birth, the positioning of the stars and timing of his birth decide his fortune. This factor is a scientifically proven one and is therefore very important to every individual. The timing and positioning of stars can sometimes be such that they create Dasha in the person’s charts, like, Mangal Dasha or Shani Dasha. Such dashas can lead to problems after marriage and with the help of kundali matching the same can be detected. Once detected, the astrologer can guide you to perform certain poojas or follow certain routines to lessen its effects. In extreme cases, marriage is not advisable.
6. Solving Problems of Unmatched and Mismatched Kundalis
For now, we all know that kundali matching is an important and significant aspect to check out for the success and failure of a marriage. But, what should be done of every other factor except for the kundali is right as a prospect in marriage? In such circumstances, consulting an esteemed and renowned astrologer is recommended. There are certain upayas or solutions that can apply or opt for to reduce the negative and ill effects of the dashas and yogas in the horoscope of the couple. Astrology has a solution to tie the knot with a particular person even if your kundalis are not marching with each other.
7. Special Poojas (if required) For a Better Life
Once the kundlis are matched the astrologer may suggest certain poojas for a happy married life. Sometimes, doshas found after matching kundlis can be corrected after performing certain poojas. Even when kundalis match, certain poojas are advised after detailed analysis of the stars of the bride and groom, for a successful and problem-free married life.
According to Vedic Astrology, the main and biggest reason for matching the kundalis before getting married is to ensure that the couple will have a happy, prosperous and long married life.
One of the famous and renowned astrologers ‘Bejan Daaruwala’ quoted,
“The importance and significance of kundali matching are very essential in life if you want to ensure that the marriage will be successful.”
It is believed that the nature of the individual can be predicted through his/her horoscope. Therefore, before getting married and through matchmaking, one can know if the other person is sincere for the marriage, how will be the compatibility and relationship between the couple and other such important factors that contribute for the success and failure of any marriage.